His children will never again experience a life that is secure and normal.There will always be some kind of drama because of the affair.This weekend we met up with some of our old college friends and Doug’s fraternity brothers for an enjoyable night out.
I met one woman who was the “friend” of one of Doug’s frat brothers who also is divorced.
I have to think that rarely is the other person worth giving everything up for.
The cheating spouse is giving up their family, friends, home, their past, their assets, and almost everything in their life for this other person, who in many cases they hardly even know.
This woman told me that she is not even sure he is still with his affair partner, as the OW is still married and it is a subject that they do not bring up.
The only thing they talk about is the logistics of raising their kids.