Dating an alcoholic who is sober

I am a 34 year old straight woman in an open marriage with a 39 year straight man.I have taken far more advantage of the openness of our marriage than my husband, at least until recently.My mother is 54 years old and is breathtakingly beautiful and, unlike me, hasn’t let her body go.My husband, who is also handsome and fit, looked like he was happier than I had ever seen him.I can have a glass of wine in the morning and drink until I pass out in the afternoon and wake up when my lover comes home and go to the pub with him and start drinking again.My husband can’t tolerate that behaviour which is why I moved in with my current lover.I have sneaked in the house and gone up to what used to be our bedroom and found my mother has moved all her clothes into the wardrobe and taken what I had left out and I have even seen a tube of lube on the bedside table (my mother is post menopausal).

B) In between all the references to “her perfect body” and you pining for the companionable life of long talks and theatre visits you’ve lost, there’s the fact that this has been going on long enough for her to move into your house… That doesn’t mean his choices are your fault – I don’t know how your open marriage works or what ground rules you set but I’m pretty sure he owed you at least one direct “” this is a case of some deep, deep incompatibility and disconnection between the two of you. Did he know whether you ever wanted to come back from living with this most recent dude?This past Sunday my lover and I went to a country pub and I glanced in the dining room and saw my husband with a beautiful older woman, but not just any woman.It was my mother and, from the way they looked at each other and were touching, I could tell instantly that it was more than a friendly lunch; they were quite obviously in love with each other.Obviously the ick factor of a your husband having an affair with his wife’s mother is high.Y’all have an open marriage, he could theoretically be with anyone in the world, and he chooses your mom?

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